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ILovePoems | This time I asked whats important to him about me? Fish - bouquet - letter - lily I know the fish is about money and being independent and he loves that, someone that doesn't always ask him for money. (I dont ask him for money lol). I'm trying to figure out the bouquet letter and lily stand for? Now after thinking about it. It could mean that be wants me to independent and that would be good news to him (lily)? Hes also an older man so it could mean good news to him. The 9 of pentacles also shown for his goal about me. I can exchange if you want. |
ikja | In my opinion, fish can be symbolic of any type of girl investment - including emotional. From the question you've asked, looking at the fish as a symbol of money doesn't make much sense. So, I take the fish in water to be his feelings and how invested he is in the relationship that you have. I think the spread is saying that you make him happy and through your communications - something about the way you write or what you write/talks about makes him feel drawn to you. The conversations are happy and bright and this is what enables him to develop his feelings for you. For me: Fish - investment Bouquet - happiness/positive/gifts Letter - communications Lily - intimacy/sex (could also be older person depending on the question) |
ILovePoems | Thank you Ikja, the reason I said fish is about being independent is because hes a business man himself and he doesn't like when someone keeps asking him for cash like a bank or something. I also dont think hes has feelings lol 😁 I have trouble with letter though, I never wrote him anything.. Just communicating back and forth but no texting or writing a letter, which is what the card birds is right? I dont really get what the cards are saying except for what I said, but nevermind just gonna drop it lol |
ikja | I think letter is more general - for me it's any communication. That said, it doesn't mean that your interpretation is wrong. Whatever rings more true for you is what you should take as 'resonating' lol |
ILovePoems | Now I'm stuck. Is letter and birds the same thing? O.o |
ikja | For me birds is conversation - talking/gossiping. Letters is more letters/texts, but can be emails too or just general communication. Any means that you receive news through. |
ILovePoems | Can you help me with one more pllllllllleeeeaaasssseeee? o: I asked why does he want to talk to me And I got Heart - whip - book - man I'm kinda lost here Do you have a question? |
ikja | You should try pulling 3 or 5 cards - it helps with the technique called mirroring. Is the guy that you're talking about married or separated from a wife? How often do you speak to eachother? Is it at a particular time of the day? What do you talk about? Some thing tells me that he may be talking to you because things aren't right at home and you're a 'secret' (book) that he keeps for when things are bad. Alternatively, it might just be that he is fond of you and your energy/passion for whatever it is that you communicate about. It does something for him, that he is in the process of trying to work out himself. |
ikja | My question is: Is 'XXX' involved with someone else? Thank you xxx |
ILovePoems | Hmm, nope not married, he doesnt have anyone. I think you're on to something.. I feel hes conflicted. A while back he loss a friend and sometimes his conversations would be sadness then happiness when he hears from me, so working something out makes sense. Me and him don't talk everyday but its like he wants to talk to me. Um Ikja, if its okay, can you give me his last initial so It wont be like I'm asking myself that question lol
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ikja | Updated Hun x That's the trick with Leno... You only get pics so, it can be a raaaaange of things. You then have to go through the ones that make the most sense. |
ILovePoems | Hmm I asked and it looks like he could be talking to some people or someone.. But not sure there is any feelings involved. Does he get attention from people?? Birds - moon - bear - clover I dont know if I concentrated on your question right o: |
ikja | quote: Originally posted by ILovePoems: Hmm I asked and it looks like he could be talking to some people or someone.. But not sure there is any feelings involved. Does he get attention from people??Birds - moon - bear - clover I dont know if I concentrated on your question right o:
I get the impression that he is talking to a few people or someone. I'm not sure if he is involved deeply. I do think he loves me, but like me... To an extent, I think he is scared. |
ILovePoems | Do you know what the bear and clover mean here? |
ikja | I actually think that he may be actively involved with someone - chatting to them and feel quite passionately about them - infatuated even, but it may be short lived. Bear is stability and clover is luck, but it's short term. |
ILovePoems | Wow, I guess I need to practice more lol If you have another question, let me know so I can practice |